10 Ways To Make Him Better In Bed For Valentine’s Day
Written by Heather Matthews - Tuesday, 30 December 2008
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 Valentine’s Day is meant to be the most romantic day of the year, so why not devote yourself to amping up your sex life with some fun tricks and techniques this February 14th?
There are many clever ways you can make your Valentine experience steamier and more exciting, for both of you.
Here is our list of ten ways to make him better in bed this Valentine’s Day:
1.) Spicy Talk – Men love nothing better than knowing that you really want them! By telling him how good his touch feels to you, and what you really want in bed, you can raise your sexual game – together. Don’t be shy about using words you might not regularly say when you are in bed together: as long as you passion is sincere, he will feel it, too, and it will heighten his pleasure. Consider watching an adult film if you need some pointers, or read some erotica, to get a sense of what you can say to spice up your private moments together.
2.) Adult Costumes – Sex can be more fun, when you are willing to add an element of make-believe. Dress up in lingerie, a French maid’s costume, or even a sports jersey (with nothing underneath), in order to add a sense of drama to your romantic life. Tried and true accessories like stocking and garters are sure-fire ways to raise his temperature: go to websites like Victoria’s Secret or Frederick’s of Hollywood, to find some affordable options for sexy costumes that will excite him on Valentine’s Day.
3.) Adult DVD’s - If you watch an adult film together, chances are you will both feel excited, and mimic the activity you see on the screen! Make sure you are comfortable with the subject matter, by watching it alone first: if you feel offended or threatened by the things you see, choose another option for Valentine’s Day. As long as you both enjoy watching other people make love, there is really no harm in bringing an adult video into your intimate life.
4.) Massages – Guys love massages: taking the time to buy some exotic oils and lotions can really set the mood for a great Valentine’s Day frolic. Learn how to give a more professional massage by watching online videos, or reading up on the topic. The more relaxed and pampered he feels, the more you will connect in your sexual life together.
5.) Candles – Lighting some candles throughout your home, especially in the bedroom, will add a touch of romance to the night, and they will also cast a flattering glow over both of you, highlighting sensuality and beauty. Candles don’t cost very much, and they are far more romantic than bright light, or total darkness.
6.) Erotica – Sexy stories that you read to your lover will excite him, and they are an excellent option, if you don’t want to bring pornographic films into your sex life. Some erotica is really quite elegant and well written, and other erotica can be very hard-core and graphic. Look around for ebooks you can download, very cheaply, off the Internet, and tell him a story that will make his heart beat faster!
7.) Sexy foods – Some food have a legendary effect on the libido, such as oysters, chocolate, and even champagne. Set a sexy spread of the most libido-enhancing foods, and feed them to him.
8.) Music – Music has a real impact on mood and atmosphere, so seek out the most romantic, and sexually inspiring tunes, and make sure they are close at hand, in your bedroom, on Valentine’s Day. Some classical music, like Ravel’s Bolero, is known for its passion and sexiness, and works well for intimate moments. If your lover prefers rock music, find something with lyrics and rhythm that make you feel more excited. Even classics like Foreigner’s Urgent, or Waiting For A Girl Like You, can be very appropriate: it’s all to do with personal taste.
9.) The Kama Sutra – This book of esoteric sexual positions is world-renowned as a romantic aid for lovers who want to try something new. Give him a copy of the Kama Sutra, and explore some new ways of being intimate.
10.) Love Him – When someone loves you, desire takes on a new depth. By truly loving and caring for your man on Valentine’s Day, you can make him feel like a king. There is nothing more special than the closeness of two people who are truly in love, and who choose to share their bodies and emotions in the spirit of real commitment. Show him how much you love him, and you sex life will reflect your mutual ardor for each other.
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